Like almost all fried food, you need to have your dry and wet mix. Now calamari are a bit picky and need to be tenderized for better results. You can soak them in lemon juice for 20 minutes or just let them sit a few hours ( or overnight) in milk.
So let’s just do that, put the sliced calamari in a mixing bowl, put the milk, cover, and let it nap in the fridge for at least 1 hour ideally 8.
When ready to cook them, toss this into a colander to remove the excess milk.
For the dry mix, put in a mixing bowl the flour, cornstarch + all the spices and mix
In a pot, heat up ~1 liter of oil to 350F.
Take about 6 calamari slices(don’t overcrowd as it will lower the oil temp), dip them in the wet mix then toss them in the dry mix then put them individually in the hot oil for 2 minutes. Put on a paper towel to remove excess oil. Repeat for remaining calamari. I like to lightly coat with salt before serving
For the sauce just combine it all together.